Questionable people do dirty things, dirty people do disgusting acts. The unwritten rules of the world are no longer understood because society has turned a blind eye to them and placed excuses upon them. Rules that were once thought unbreakable except by cowards are irrelevant. Now human beings can go about doing these dirty acts with no real care in the world. The even sadder part of all this is they don’t even see the issues wrong with what they are doing. The high and mighty is being raised with the notion that these unwritten rules are strictly for the lawless, the criminals and the scum of the underworld. Further from the truth this statement could be. These unwritten rules are centuries old, only recently have they stop being used by certain classes of people. The high and might, the natural born rich, the misguided ignorant fake religious fools and the cowards that believe and wish they had a vagina so they could be momma’s lil girl. These people throw off the balance of the universe, throw off all that mankind has established throughout the years. Where these different molds of people intertwine is in the realm of friendship. Friendship has no boundaries, there are rules to who can and cannot be friends. Yet this is when the problem occurs. These different people living with different upbringings, different moral beliefs, and coming from different classes. The lower class of people believe in these unwritten rules, live by these unwritten rules and die by these unwritten rules. Friendship means everything, peoples egos are to not be touched, friends are to not go against each other, women are off limits to friends, snitching is punishable by death, and the leaving of a brother behind is a ticket to shame. Here are just a few of these laws, never could all be written. They are just consciously known and understood. We all must understand the side we chose to ride on. We all must understand where our alliance lays. When are with a group, you cannot switched side and jump back and forth between sides. Some people live by these rules to an extreme, they are magnified in their eyes. So when these unwritten rules our broken, it is most certainly death, death of a person, death to their friendship, and death of respect once there. Dirty is dirty, regardless of the level of it. It doesn’t matter if it’s a direct person within the group or if it’s a third person involved within the group. We all have actions to account for at the end of the day. Here is the example to give. It’s on friends trying to get at the women your entertaining, women that if official or unofficial yours. These women become automatically off limits. I will place myself in this example so it can be easier to grasp since the multiply parties involved. If I am with a girl unofficial, meaning we are not boyfriend girlfriend but we our attracted to each other, and you are well aware we do mess around, that automatically makes that girl off limits. Any advancement on that girl by one of my friends becomes a direct disrespect towards me. At this point I have to lose all respect for my friend because that is a dirty move on every level. But it does not stop there, now the woman comes into judgment. If my girl shuts him down there and lets him know what’s up with me and her, the issue is dead right there. Therefore she did the right thing by telling him the business with her and I. That is a very respectable quality on the female’s part, and any guy would look at that and be thankful for what she did. Now let’s say she does not do that. Let’s say she entertains the friend as he is trying to make his move, say she harmlessly flirts back, by doing that you entertain the guys thought that he has real chance at the girl. By doing this you are now making your official or unofficial friend look stupid and pathetic because now that other guy knows if he wants you he could have you. I know look like I am not on top of my own game and my own girl, I know look plain pathetic in that other guys mind. Regardless of how it actually went down, this is beyond a disrespectful quality, absolutely no way I can respect that, regardless of how harmless it may have been. You could have shot him down and let it be known that’s my man, or me and him have something going on, so you’re wasting your time. The term a ride or die chick comes from examples like that. From a guy’s stand point if I became upset with the girl it would be completely understandable, regardless if were an item or not because at the end of the day you disrespected me if you chose to acknowledge it or not. As far as the friend goes, well that was a sad move on his part and their most likely will be words said and their most definitely will be a solution to the problem. This is an example of the unwritten laws that are broken all the time. This is why there are lone wolfs walking around the world because the closes of friends are to be questioned at the end of the day. The older we age, the more eyes become open to the world and its dirty ways. The more you realize that this world is a sad playground for the clowns of the world.
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